As my mom's left arm weakened to the point of immobility, she was unable to dress herself. Unfortunately, her husband, her primary caregiver, has Essential Tremors, and therefore had a lot of difficulty with snaps, buttons, zippers... He is also pretty oblivious to comfort and fit (I remember once he'd accidentally fastened my mother's bra so that the bottom band crossed directly over her breasts. Unfortunately, since she cannot speak, and has less sensitivity on affected parts of her body when I came by in the afternoon, it had been like that all day! Ouch!)
Back opening dress |
Tulip shirt back |
My mom had lost so much weight that I was able to cut her knit shirts open and overlap them enough in the back for her husband to make it work.
Sewing
If you're fairly comfortable at adapting a pattern, then you could easily make something like this yourself by extending the pattern's shoulder on one side so that it would create a facing (I'd interface it) and add snaps or velcro to it.
This free Tulip top pattern is designed to be sewn with the tulip hem on either the back or the front. It could probably be easily converted to being able to open it completely (instead of secured at the neckline) and use snaps or velcro at the shoulders.
I think this pattern would also work well with a g-tube/PEG. Modified Tops for Nursing and G-Tubes.
Electric wheelchair |
First of all, the wheelchair didn't fit in the tiny little potty room, so someone had to help Mom rise from her wheelchair, then help her balance until she could hold onto a grab bar mounted on the wall. She then shuffled until she was in front of the toilet. We had a second grab bar installed there, and she held on to that for balance. Her ALS had progressed to the point that she only had the use of one hand, and that hand was holding the grab bar, which meant someone else had to drop her pants for her (and help pull them back up when she was done). There was very little dignity to be found in this situation!
Suddenly we needed "open bottom" pants for my mom.
As she became less able to support her own weight, we quickly discovered that she needed a lift (including a lift in her spirits!). The problem with lifts is that they lift you out of the wheelchair in a sling and then lower you onto the potty - which is great, except when/how do you lower your pants?! The sling has a circular opening where your bottom "hangs out." A quick bout of research (found an awesome site called Silvert's with some "open bottom options") and we quickly discovered this meant you had to go "commando" so your clothes had to discreetly cover you everywhere, except your bottom.
That left mom with 2 options.
One, a tulip-backed dress with a cut-out for the bottom. The person looks fully clothed when you're looking down from above. The sides of the skirt are tucked under the person's legs and the back of the dress goes to the chair seat and stops. We still had to add access to the PEG tube for feeding (see this post for details).
.Option two was pants, capris, shorts. This was mom's preference, and with the purchase of a pair of Silvert's open-bottom pants and this video which showed me how they worked, I thought we were in business! She tried out the pants for a couple of days before I made more, and I'm so glad we waited.
In theory, these are awesome! In everyday use? Not so much. The crotch seam was sewed so far toward the back that you couldn't easily access the front parts of the body that need "wiping." That seam had to be opened up to allow the slit to come further toward the waist.
Suddenly we needed "open bottom" pants for my mom.
As she became less able to support her own weight, we quickly discovered that she needed a lift (including a lift in her spirits!). The problem with lifts is that they lift you out of the wheelchair in a sling and then lower you onto the potty - which is great, except when/how do you lower your pants?! The sling has a circular opening where your bottom "hangs out." A quick bout of research (found an awesome site called Silvert's with some "open bottom options") and we quickly discovered this meant you had to go "commando" so your clothes had to discreetly cover you everywhere, except your bottom.
That left mom with 2 options.
One, a tulip-backed dress with a cut-out for the bottom. The person looks fully clothed when you're looking down from above. The sides of the skirt are tucked under the person's legs and the back of the dress goes to the chair seat and stops. We still had to add access to the PEG tube for feeding (see this post for details).
.Option two was pants, capris, shorts. This was mom's preference, and with the purchase of a pair of Silvert's open-bottom pants and this video which showed me how they worked, I thought we were in business! She tried out the pants for a couple of days before I made more, and I'm so glad we waited.
Step one, while still in a seated position pull pants up over legs. |
Secure adjustable waistband. "Flap" will cover hips, but the bottom is exposed when in seated position. |
In theory, the generous amount of fabric in these loose-fitting pants, and the fact that my mom never sits with her knees spread apart, keeps them from gaping open enough to show the opening.
The worst part? To secure the snaps in the back - already difficult for her caregiver with Essential Tremors, Mom had to lean forward in her chair - which inhibited her breathing. Not wheelchair-friendly at all!
So I opened up the left side of the back "flap" and added some velcro strips (could use a separating zipper as well). That way the flap could be slipped behind the person and then secured on the side (much easier than trying to secure it behind their back).
This worked much better so I altered a pair of her loose-fitting (she's lost about 70lbs on her liquid diet), elastic waistband, knit shorts. Instead of Velcro, I used magnetic purse snaps (my new favorite closure!). It's pretty easy to alter the shorts (although it helped to have matching color fabric for the new flaps needed for the side closure), but I've also drafted a pattern so I can make new ones in any colors I wish.
The worst part? To secure the snaps in the back - already difficult for her caregiver with Essential Tremors, Mom had to lean forward in her chair - which inhibited her breathing. Not wheelchair-friendly at all!
Original design |
Shifted to side closure instead of center back. |
So I opened up the left side of the back "flap" and added some velcro strips (could use a separating zipper as well). That way the flap could be slipped behind the person and then secured on the side (much easier than trying to secure it behind their back).
This worked much better so I altered a pair of her loose-fitting (she's lost about 70lbs on her liquid diet), elastic waistband, knit shorts. Instead of Velcro, I used magnetic purse snaps (my new favorite closure!). It's pretty easy to alter the shorts (although it helped to have matching color fabric for the new flaps needed for the side closure), but I've also drafted a pattern so I can make new ones in any colors I wish.
I can add more details if anyone is interested in doing any of these projects themselves.
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Where can I find your magnetic closures?
ReplyDeleteThey are usually purse closures. I bought them at my local JoAnn store during notions sales.
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Mary, I love the tulip top. Are you able to send me the pattern? I find that though Silverts has a lot of nice choices they do not have anything very warm. I like you sample of the fuzzy warm tulip top. Thanks so much
ReplyDeleteMy mom had lost so much weight that I was able to cut her knit shirts open and overlap them on one shoulder.
ReplyDeleteIf you're fairly comfortable at adapting a pattern, then this free Tulip top pattern is designed to be be sewn with tulip hem on either the back or the front. It could probably be easily converted to being able to open it completely (instead of secured at the shoulder) and use snaps or velcro
https://www.patternsforpirates.com/product/tulip-tee/
I think it would also work well with a g-tube/PEG.
Thank you SO much for this. I am wanting to make mom some pants like this from scratch or modify her existing ones. The ones from Silvert's do look great however I would like them ASAP and there is a supply issue (plus cost issue) at the moment, and I also think side closures would be better for mom and us caregivers. She has advanced stage dementia and after her hip surgery is now wheelchair bound. She is in an unfamiliar setting and is easy distressed by strangers reaching around behind her to assist with toileting, changing, transfers, etc. I think these might be of help. Do you have any existing patterns that I could use or just work it out for myself?
ReplyDeleteI used my mom's existing pants. She tended to wear loose fitting pants with at least a partial elastic waistband. There is a more detailed description in this post - http://brushstrokesblog.blogspot.com/2015/01/making-open-bottom-wheelchair-pants.html
DeleteThanks! I was a bit too chicken to modify her existing pants but have taken them apart partially to get a pattern from them and am working on a mock-up in scrap fabric to see how it will work, using your instructions. So far, so good. Haven't made the panels yet. If it works out well I will make a couple of pairs from scratch and then modify some existing pants. I can't tell you enough how I appreciate this blog. I am thinking of doing the back tulip top as well. 😊❤️
DeleteHi again - I just have a question which I hope will make sense. I'm looking at the plackets on the pants, specifically the one attached to the "flap". Is it sewn to the flap at just the side, or is it also fastened at the top? In my mind I am thinking it would be fastened along the top as well as the flap edge but it seems like in the drawing that maybe it isn't (it's hard to tell, and you didn't mention tacking it at the top).
DeleteMy mom had lost so much weight that I knew she'd never wear those pants again, plus they were inexpensive to begin with. That made it much less nervewracking to cut into them. If I had it to do again and didn't want to cut up nice pants, I probably would have just experimented using pants from a thrift store or cheap sweats from Walmart (about $7).
DeleteI updated the post about the pants so it should make a little more sense.
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