Wednesday, November 8, 2017

Wearing the right size bra?!

I can't tell you how many fittings I've done where the person was wearing the wrong size bra, or even thought that they didn't need one!

A properly fitted bra makes your clothes fit better, and can even make you look thinner!

80% of women are wearing the wrong sized bra!
The lift and support of a good fitting bra can also slow and/or camouflage sagging breasts. 

Cup Size
People with small ribs tend to assume they are As or Bs (because that's often that's all that is available in most bra departments). 


Your cup size is proportional to your ribs.  


The cup on a 36C might be about the size of an orange, but imagine sticking those oranges on the chest of an 8-year-old. They would look huge! Now take those same oranges and stick them on the chest of a big guy.  You'd probably barely notice them.



Same exact cup volume
28G = 30DDD(F) = 32DD(E) = 34D = 36C = 38B = 40A
Large Male = they become pecs!




Heads Up!
Many stores will fit you in the size they carry. Meaning if based on your rib and bust measurements, you should be wearing a 28G, and the store doesn't carry that (most don't!), then they might put you in the next size up that they carry. Most likely they don't carry a 30F and they might not carry a 32DD, either so they'd put you in a 34D. Which means the cup size might fit, but the band will be too loose to be supportive!

Measuring for the Right Size* Bra

  1. Band Size
    Measure around your rib cage, just under your breasts where your bra band will go. This is your band size. Round this number up or down to the nearest even number.
    Ex. 33.5" = 34 or 32.75" = 32
    Hint:
    It's always better to round down if your band width is not within half an inch of the next size up, because your bra will stretch over time. You can wear it on the loosest hooks when you purchase it and tighten it as it stretches out.
  2. Bust Size
    Wearing your best-fitting bra, measure around the fullest part of your bust. Subtract your band size from this number. The difference between the 2 numbers is your cup size.
    Ex. Bust = 38" Band size =34
    38 minus 34 = 4" cup size
  3. Cup Size
    Every inch of cup size equals the letter part of your bra size. 1" = A, 2" = B, 3" = C, 4" = D.
    Unfortunately, this is where it gets a little confusing.
    Different brands tend to use different letters for the same cup size.
    5" can equal E or DD
    6" can equal F or DDD (some companies even call this EE)
    7" can equal FF or DDDD or G
    8" can equal GG or H
    9" usually equals HH because most companies don't want to use I as it can be confused with the number 1.
    10" and up tend to use whatever letter they correspond with 10=J, 11=K, 12=L, 13=M, 14=N...
  4. Bra Size!
    Add your band size to your cup letter and Voila! You have your correct bra size.
    Ex. 32DD, 40D, 38GG...

    * This measuring system is intended to be a jumping-off point. There are things that can affect these numbers like broad/narrow shoulders, different size breasts, measuring over a poorly fitting bra, older breasts tend to lose their elasticity and fullness so may not fill out the upper portion of the bra cup like they used to...

BOOB or BUST! - Handy help with bra measuring techniques and more. 


All Bras Are Not Created Equal 

An important part of finding a good bra is trying them on. I compare this to the search for the perfect fitting pair of jeans. All jeans are not created equal. they can run big or little or fit perky/juicy body parts better or worse. The same is true of bras. 

You might find a brand that fits your body well but discover that different styles of the same brand fit differently. I once purchased a specific brand of bra online. I already owned a bra from this company, so I knew my size (in general, this brand runs small so knowing my size was important!). I bought a different style from the one I owned (a balconette bra). When the bra arrived, the boning on the side poked into my armpit and both the cups and the center front were so high that my bra showed when I wore a top that showed any cleavage. The bra was so uncomfortable I couldn't wear it. 

You know your size, now what?


Just like jeans (my nemesis!), every brand and style fits differently.
 Some run small, some run big, some have stands/boning or underwires that are high under the armpit, on some the gore and/or cups are super high and will show under lower cut tops. 

Unfortunately, this means that your best option to finding a good fit is to try the bra on.

How to tell if a bra fits: 

  1. A snug band: The band is what should do the majority of the work supporting your breasts, not the straps. You should be able to put one or two fingers under the band, but no more. (This will probably feel snugger than you are used to because you are used to wearing the wrong size bra!)
    Tip:
    If your band is pulled away from your body underneath your breasts, this means your cups are probably too small.
  2. Sufficient side coverage:
    The bra cup should hold all your breast tissue. This means if you're wearing a bra with an underwire, the end of it should be pointing toward the middle of your armpit. You also shouldn't have any breast tissue coming out from the sides of the cups.
  3. A flat gore:
    The gore (the part of the bra band that's between the cups) should sit flat against your chest, without digging into your skin uncomfortably. If it doesn't fit flat, your bra cups are probably too small.
  4. A smooth curve:
    Avoid the dreaded "quad-boob"/"muffin top that results from the top of a too-small cup cutting into breast tissue above the bra. Instead, look for a fit that results in a clean silhouette with no stray tissue. (WikiHow To Measure Your Bra Size)
  5. Size and Shape:
    Breasts are usually slightly different sizes. If one breast is significantly larger than the other, then I recommend finding a bra that fits the larger breast and adding a small amount of padding to the bra cup (at the bottom of the cup).
  6. Secure Bra Straps:
    If your band is the correct size then your bra straps shouldn't constantly slide off your shoulders. This is a common problem for women with narrower frames who are wearing a band that is too big. The straps will be spaced further out on the band than they should be and therefore will be closer to the ball joint of your shoulder rather than the natural curve between the shoulder joint and neck - which means the straps will constantly slip over the shoulder joint and down the arm.

    If your bra fits well then the band supports most of the weight of your breasts, instead of the shoulder straps. This means that your bra shouldn't be cutting grooves into your shoulder! 

For Those Of Us Who Wear Unusual Sizes


Not only do I have a small rib size and a large cup size (which regular stores don't carry), but I find that most of the time, the underwires on the sides of my bra poke me in the armpit in a lot of bras. Also, I can't always tell how much coverage the bra gives - will it show under low-cut tops? - will someone be able to tell if I'm cold? A lot of times the only way to tell is to just try them on.

Specialty Bra Stores
Every single brand and style fits differently. This is why I prefer to use a specialty bra shop and get fitted by a professional. (Not a store like V.S. where the secret is that their "trained" fitters tend to put you in the closest-to-your-size bra that they have in stock).

Specialty stores usually carry a wide variety of bras to try on to find a good fit and the type of bra that I prefer (coverage, style, brand...).

Tip: Even bras from the same company can fit differently, I often can't find my size (34HH) in the average store, and bras from specialty stores typically cost a lot ($70+), so if I don't need a bra right away, I usually go to a specialty bra store to get fitted by a professional. They bring me different bras to try on for fit. 

When I find a bra that fits well and that I like, then I discretely take pictures of the tags. Often, I can purchase the exact same bra online for significantly less. When I want to buy another one, I usually find them for even less because they are no longer the latest model. 

Buying Online
Every brand and style of bra fits differently. If you are purchasing a bra you haven't already tried on, you should definitely shop somewhere with a flexible return policy.

Losing Weight and Stretched Out Bras
When purchasing a bra, unless your rib measurement is within a half-inch of a band size (ex. 33.5"-34" would buy a 34), I suggest you buy the next smaller band size (ex. 33" would buy a 32), because your bra will stretch out over time. You can wear it on the loosest hooks when you purchase it or even add an extender and then tighten it as the bra stretches out (or you lose that weight you swear you are going to lose!). 

If you purchase the smaller band size don't forget about sister sizing! You'll need to go up a cup size if you're going down a band size. If your normal bra size is 40A then you would wear a 38B.

Sagging - As your body gets older you lose a lot of the elasticity of the breast skin, this is the most common cause of saggy breasts, especially for women with larger cup sizes. Wearing a properly fitting bra that supports the breasts can slow this process and/or camouflage it. 

Alterations
One option I use a lot is to find a bra that has the right size cups and then have a professional seamstress alter the band size for me. Luckily for me, I happen to be a seamstress, but it's not an especially difficult alteration and many of the specialty stores offer alterations as an additional service.


How To Make Sewing Pattern Modifications



Different types/ styles of bras:

  • Unlined - offer structure but are lightweight because they have no heavy padding.
  • Demi Cup - only covers about half the breast. This allows for low cut tops.
    Demi Bra
  • Balconette - similar to the Demi cup bra, but usually covers less of the breast. The straps are closer to the outside edge than a standard bra. They also tend to be more femininely embellished.
    Balconette Bra
  • Push-Up - has padding on the bottom or on the sides of the cups to push up the breasts. The outside of the cups can also be padded to add up to 2 cup sizes.
    Push-up Plunge
  • Plunge - similar to the push-up bra, but with a deep v-neckline in the front. 
  • Full Coverage - for full-figured/busty women - this has more support and a sturdier underwire
    Full Coverage
  • Minimizer - usually worn by full-figured/ busty women who wish to compress the breasts to make them less noticeable and/or clothing fit better.
    Minimizer
  • Strapless - relies on the support of the band without needing straps.
    Strapless Pushup
  • Convertible - straps can be reconfigured so that the bra straps can be moved and reattached to work under a halter, racerback, backless, one shoulder.
    Convertible Straps
  • Sports Bra - usually made of stretchy fashion fabric. Designed to compress breasts and keep them from bouncing/ moving during vigorous exercise. Usually extends down the ribs a couple of inches like a longline bra.  Typically does not have adjustable straps or underwire. Can be worn under athletic clothes or by itself. 
    Sports Bra
  • Bralette/ Longline - provides a little more coverage because the bra band extends down the ribs, but usually in a lighter, more flexible fabric. Can be worn under sheer tops and be meant to be visible.

    Longline/ Bralette
  • Adhesive/Tape - Adhesive bras or boob tapes are great for wearing under clothes that are backless, strapless, and/or have plunging necklines. They can also be used to minimize or bind the breasts.

    Adhesive bras and tapes can create cleavage and even add cup sizes. However, finding an adhesive bra that supports the breasts and stays on (many won't stay stuck to the skin and/or are painful to remove) can be very difficult.

    For example, this bra is pushing the breasts together, giving the woman cleavage, but it is not supporting the breasts at all. Dancing and any other activity where the breasts are bouncing around (like running on the beach in a lifeguard swimsuit! lol), would probably be painful. 


    Think of an adhesive bra like you do any other bra - does it provide the lift and support you want? 


  • Misses Kisses Bra - frontless, backless, and strapless! It sounds crazy but it works. There are other brands but this one gets great reviews.


  • Longline/ Bustier - usually strapless and extends down to the waist or hips. Often used in bridal wear for dresses that are low-cut and/or backless. Made of sturdier bra-type materials with boning, Usually has hook and eye closures just like a regular bra, but all the way down the front or back. Can be used for slimming the torso, waist, and hips (if extends past the waist).
    Longline/ Bustier waist length and longline
  • Corset - Similar to a bustier, but made of fashion fabric instead of bra-type materials with built-in boning. Usually closed with ribbon through grommets laced down the front or back of the corset. Often tightened in a way that pushes up the breasts and compresses the torso (and waist and hips depending on the length), creating an hourglass shape. Can be worn as an undergarment or over a blouse or dress. 
    Typical Lacing
    • Underbust -fit around and under the bust but not actually supporting the bust (with straps this is usually considered to be a corset, without straps this is usually called a Waist Cinch or Waist Trainer). Can also push-up the breasts by supporting the base of the breasts without covering the breasts.
      Underbust corset - halter straps
    • Overbust - with or without straps
      - Push up the breasts without using a breast cup or molded form by compressing the bottom of the breast and pushing the rest of the breast tissue upward
      Demi cup corset

      - Princess seams - no individual cups, but the fabric is shaped to accommodate the breasts.
      Princess seams with straps
    • - Individual cups


Sunday, October 29, 2017

Wonder Woman Costume!

Wonder Woman! Well, if Wonder got older and had 4 kids (with Superman!)  I whipped up this cute costume for a Halloween costume party. I think it turned out great! 
Wonder Woman's Bustier
The red corset top started out as a (failed) project. When the gold satin Wonder Woman symbol was appliqued to the top of the red vinyl corset, it smoothed out some of the rough spots caused by trying to sew stiff vinyl into a curved bra cup and saved the corset!
(Notes: For large busted women, always use an underwire when making a corset. Be aware that vinyl is stiff and darts and seams will look pointy and sharp instead of smooth. Vinyl does not breath at all! You will get hot and sweaty in an unlined corset.)
Wonder Woman's Tiara
This headband is made from the stiff red vinyl cut into a tiara shape held on in the back with a wide non-roll waistband elastic. I cut a small star into a piece of the same gold satin used on the corset and covered the red vinyl tiara. Appliqued around the cut out star to show the red vinyl underneath.

Wonder Woman's Lasso of Truth 
This was just some gold drapery cord I had laying around. 

Wonder Woman's Shorts
The more mature Wonder Woman is not about to wear her old swimsuit style undergarment! So this soft blue with white stars satin fabric was made with a simple sleep short pattern. The elastic waistband was covered with a purchased gold belt.
(Note: If you can't find a similar fabric, I have also made a version with white paint stenciled/ stamped onto a blue fabric. You can cut a star shape in a piece of cardboard and dab on the white paint, or cut a sponge into a star shape and stamp the painted sponge star onto your fabric. Be sure to let the paint dry before you move it!)

Wonder Woman's Boots
These iconic boots are a simple boot cover that's worn over whatever shoe you want to wear. I traced one of my own boots as a pattern. Then appliqued on the white stripes.

Monday, October 19, 2015

BrushStrokes



Life is like a canvas. It begins blank & every day is another brush stroke. Make your life a masterpiece.

Mary Brush's family and friends often refer to her as a "Renaissance Woman" and it's not too difficult to figure out why. She is passionate about a variety of things, including working with small businesses, sales and marketing campaigns, manuscript editing, copy writing, graphic and CAD design, web design, custom sewing, interior design, and therapeutic parenting. Her enthusiasm, talent and hard work ensure that she excels in all of them. Her struggle has often been deciding where to focus her attention.

Today, Mary Brush lends her years of experience to the corporate world. BrushStrokes offerings focus on corporate consulting (including restructuring operations, HR, profit and loss, and sales and marketing - including marketing campaigns and web site design) and editing (business writing, manuscripts, eBooks, presentations and speeches).

BrushStrokes began in 1988 as a clothing design studio, specializing in custom clothing and design, and quickly expanded to include interior decorating, architectural CAD design. graphic design and manuscript editing. Working with entrepreneurs and product development design expanded her skill set to include marketing collateral, presentations, web design and campaigns.




Sunday, January 25, 2015

Making Open-bottom Wheelchair Pants

I designed several types of adaptive clothing for my mom with ALS. This post will detail how to make open-bottom wheelchair pants by modifying existing pants (I chose stretchy, elastic waist pants, but it would be possible to use other types of styles and fabrics with some tweaking).  When looking down (or from the side) at the person seated in their chair or laying in bed, the pants will look complete - you should not be able to see any bare skin. Only the person and his/ her caregiver will know the person's bottom is bare.


When my mother needed open bottom pants (to prevent the need to lower pants down and out of the way when using the restroom and when she was using the lift), we found Silvert's open bottom wheelchair pants. These were great, but apparently, they were designed to be used by someone who could stand and/or support their own weight - because while you could slide the leg part on while the person was in a seated position, the waist closure was in the middle of the back. This is almost impossible to reach if the person is seated in a chair or laying on a bed. 

I decided to modify the Silvert's pants so that a caregiver could put them on easily while the person was seated in the chair or laying on a bed.

 For this project, I'm assuming you are fairly experienced at sewing, so I will not be drawing out every single step. If something is confusing, just let me know and I'll try to explain it better.

Altering Pants To Be Open-Bottom For Wheelchair/Lift.

This works best on baggy sweat pants (or other knit material not requiring finished edges).


Seated Side Point (SSP)- When the person is seated mark the waist where the person's side meets the back of the chair then measure one and a half inches toward the back seam. This is your Seated Side Point. 

Seated Side Measurement (SSM)Measure the distance from SSP to the seat of the chair. This number is your Seated Side Measurement.

  1. Mark the Seated Side point on the waistband.
    In this image, the SSM is marked on the left, but you can put the mark on whichever side is most convenient for the caregiver to access when securing the pants. Ex. if the person's bed is up against a wall then the opposite side from the wall would be the better place to put a closure so the caregiver doesn't have to lean over the person to access the closure.)
  2. Stitch the waistband on both sides of SSP to secure the elastic. 




Seated Back Measurement (SBM). When the person is seated, at the center back, measure from the top of the waistband to the seat of the chair. 

Marking the cutting line.
3.   From the top of the waistband, draw an imaginary SSM line plus 2 inches down the center back seam of the pant. Mark the bottom of this line on the pants.
4.   Starting at the Seated Side Point on the waistband (between the 2 rows of stitches) and going straight down the back of the pants, draw a cutting line the length of the Seated Side Measurement (SSM) plus 1 inch. " 
5.   On the opposite side of the pants, draw a matching imaginary line straight down the length of the pant.  Seated Back Measurement + 1". Mark this bottom point on the pants.
6.   Connect these 3 marks with a curved line.
7.   Cut between the stitched lines at the waistband straight down to the curved line.
8.  Pivot and cut along the curved line.



9.    Open the crotch seam from the cutting line toward the front of the pants as far as is needed to allow the person to urinate easily without wetting his or her pants.  This opening will not be visible when the person is seated with their knees together but should allow access to the groin area when the person is seated on the commode with knees slightly apart.




Adding Plackets:
Materials
2 pieces of matching/coordinating fabric 4" x (Seated Back Measurement +2"). 
Interfacing approximately the same dimensions. 
Closures - Velcro, magnetic snaps, hooks, separating zipper...


10.   Apply interfacing to the WRONG SIDE of both placket pieces. 
11.   Fold each placket piece in half (RIGHT SIDEs together). 
12.   With a 1/2" seam allowance, stitch the top and bottom edge of each placket (short sides).
13.   Turn the placket pieces RIGHT SIDE out and press (you can edgestitch the placket if you'd like it to lay a little flatter. 
14.   Apply preferred closures to plackets (velcro, large skirt hooks, magnetic purse snaps... can be modified slightly if you want to use a separating zipper). 
15.   Stitch raw edges of plackets to the raw edge of pants openings. Consider serging, zig-zagging, or covering this seam with seam tape to make it lay flat and prevent the seam from irritating the skin on the hips and buttocks of the person sitting on it all day.


To Use:
While the person is seated or laying down, slide the pant legs up the person's legs and into place (legs will be completely encased in fabric, but the bottom will remain bare).
If the person is in a chair, lean the person slightly forward and slip the back panel between the person's backside and the chair. Secure the back panel on the side using closures.
If the person is laying down, press the back panel against the person's hip. Roll the person onto that hip and keep rolling until you can see the back panel. Smooth the panel flat on the bed and roll the person back toward you until they are flat on their back. Secure the back panel on the side using closures.

For comfort, and in case of incontinence, a towel or absorbent pad can be placed on the seat under the person. This pad will remain on the bed or in the chair when the person stands or is lifted out.

Sunday, November 2, 2014

New Custom Bag - Leather Luxe

This is the bag I designed for the most recent BeTA Trauma Mama annual fund raising auction.

The winner of the auction wanted a simple black and gold bag that people would recognize as being custom. 
 The base and top of the bag are real leather as are the gold straps (which were covered with a black strap as the gold looked a little gaudy by itself).
 The bag zips shut at the top.  The inside of the bag has lots of pockets and is made with Ripstop nylon which is easy to wipe clean.

Monday, September 1, 2014

Open Backed Clothing for Wheelchair/ Lift/ Sling Use

I've been designing clothes for my mom as she has progressed through different stages of ALS.  I won't be using pictures of my mom out of respect for her privacy and dignity.

As my mom's left arm weakened to the point of immobility, she was unable to dress herself.  Unfortunately, her husband, her primary caregiver, has Essential Tremors, and therefore had a lot of difficulty with snaps, buttons, zippers...  He is also pretty oblivious to comfort and fit (I remember once he'd accidentally fastened my mother's bra so that the bottom band crossed directly over her breasts. Unfortunately, since she cannot speak, and has less sensitivity on affected parts of her body when I came by in the afternoon, it had been like that all day!  Ouch!)

Back opening dress
When mom was still using a walker, I made wrap dresses and purchased front-closing bras so that she could be dressed while sitting on the bed.  When she switched to the wheelchair full time, we tried switching her tops to back openings with velcro or snaps on the shoulders so that she wouldn't have to lift her arms as much or try to fit things over her neck brace (she was still trying to wear t-shirts - which had to go over her arm brace and her neck brace.).  This way the shirt could be pulled up over her arms, and then fastened in back.  Here's a link to how this works
Tulip shirt back

My mom had lost so much weight that I was able to cut her knit shirts open and overlap them enough in the back for her husband to make it work. 

Sewing
If you're fairly comfortable at adapting a pattern, then you could easily make something like this yourself by extending the pattern's shoulder on one side so that it would create a facing (I'd interface it) and add snaps or velcro to it. 
This free Tulip top pattern is designed to be sewn with the tulip hem on either the back or the front. It could probably be easily converted to being able to open it completely (instead of secured at the neckline) and use snaps or velcro at the shoulders.


I think this pattern would also work well with a g-tube/PEG.  Modified Tops for Nursing and G-Tubes.

Electric wheelchair
Once my mom got to the point where she needed to be in a wheelchair all the time to prevent falls.  We quickly started discovering issues with using the bathroom.  

First of all, the wheelchair didn't fit in the tiny little potty room, so someone had to help Mom rise from her wheelchair, then help her balance until she could hold onto a grab bar mounted on the wall.  She then shuffled until she was in front of the toilet.  We had a second grab bar installed there, and she held on to that for balance. Her ALS had progressed to the point that she only had the use of one hand, and that hand was holding the grab bar, which meant someone else had to drop her pants for her (and help pull them back up when she was done).  There was very little dignity to be found in this situation!

Suddenly we needed "open bottom" pants for my mom.

As she became less able to support her own weight, we quickly discovered that she needed a lift (including a lift in her spirits!).  The problem with lifts is that they lift you out of the wheelchair in a sling and then lower you onto the potty - which is great, except when/how do you lower your pants?!  The sling has a circular opening where your bottom "hangs out."  A quick bout of research (found an awesome site called Silvert's with some "open bottom options") and we quickly discovered this meant you had to go "commando" so your clothes had to discreetly cover you everywhere, except your bottom.

 That left mom with 2 options.

One, a tulip-backed dress with a cut-out for the bottom.  The person looks fully clothed when you're looking down from above.  The sides of the skirt are tucked under the person's legs and the back of the dress goes to the chair seat and stops.  We still had to add access to the PEG tube for feeding (see this post for details).
.Option two was pants, capris, shorts.  This was mom's preference, and with the purchase of a pair of Silvert's open-bottom pants and this video which showed me how they worked, I thought we were in business!  She tried out the pants for a couple of days before I made more, and I'm so glad we waited.

Step one, while still in a seated
position pull pants up over legs.
Secure adjustable waistband.
"Flap" will cover hips, but
the bottom is exposed when in
seated position.
In theory, these are awesome!  In everyday use?  Not so much.  The crotch seam was sewed so far toward the back that you couldn't easily access the front parts of the body that need "wiping."  That seam had to be opened up to allow the slit to come further toward the waist.  

In theory, the generous amount of fabric in these loose-fitting pants, and the fact that my mom never sits with her knees spread apart, keeps them from gaping open enough to show the opening.

The worst part?  To secure the snaps in the back - already difficult for her caregiver with Essential Tremors, Mom had to lean forward in her chair - which inhibited her breathing.  Not wheelchair-friendly at all!
Original design

Shifted to side closure instead of center back.

So I opened up the left side of the back "flap" and added some velcro strips (could use a separating zipper as well).  That way the flap could be slipped behind the person and then secured on the side (much easier than trying to secure it behind their back).

This worked much better so I altered a pair of her loose-fitting (she's lost about 70lbs on her liquid diet), elastic waistband, knit shorts.  Instead of Velcro, I used magnetic purse snaps (my new favorite closure!).  It's pretty easy to alter the shorts (although it helped to have matching color fabric for the new flaps needed for the side closure), but I've also drafted a pattern so I can make new ones in any colors I wish.

I can add more details if anyone is interested in doing any of these projects themselves.

Here's my updated tutorial post about altering pants to be open bottom pants.






Saturday, August 30, 2014

Modified Tops for Nursing and G-Tubes

I've been designing clothes for my mom as she has progressed through different stages of ALS.  I won't be using pictures of my mom out of respect for her privacy and dignity.

First, she got a  feeding tube, also known as a percutaneous endoscopic gastrostomy (PEG).  This meant she needed access to the port and the carrier for the tube which is kind of like a fanny pack.  Clothing couldn't be tight across the area, and she didn't want to just lift her shirt, because that left her stomach exposed (or worse if she wanted to wear a dress), not to mention that the fabric had to be secured out of the way.

I immediately thought of some of the things I'd made for myself when I was nursing.
Fabric overlaps and secures with Velcro
Stretchy fabric is pulled out of
the way for easy access.


A similar concept with a knit fabric.  No need for Velcro because the fabric was overlapped more since it was stretchy.
If not sitting up straight, the shirt gapes open but the fabric overlap prevents skin from showing.
Butterick B5101
I also began purchasing
"arthritis bras" and
altering her bras to
make them open in the front.
 
 She was actually fairly happy with t-shirts on a daily basis but wanted some nicer dresses for church.  She'd also begun having issues with the use of her left hand so needed clothing that was easy to put on and take off (no awkward back zippers!).

Voila!  The wrap dress!
{pattern Butterick B5101}

Next problem - if you untie a wrap dress, it drapes open like a bathrobe and once again shows everything. To fix this, instead of the under panel being secured only at the waist, I extended the under panel to cover the upper portion of the body as well.

The under panel was secured to the upper shoulder with Velcro to prevent it from sagging and gaping.  A long slit in the under panel to accommodate the PEG/ feeding tube and we were done!

The wrap part of the dress had a little Velcro to make sure that it stayed in place and covered the feeding tube slit. The wrap dress pattern called for a tie at the waist but this was difficult for both my mother and her caretaker to tie and in her wheelchair, she didn't need it.

10PCS/5Pairs Magnetic Clasp Purse Snaps Closures Sewing Button Bag ...

Magnetic Purse Snaps
Later, we started using magnetic purse snaps for closures instead of Velcro. It made things much easier to open and close without worrying that the Velcro wasn't securely caught or was twisted/forcing the material to lay crookedly.

We used the heavy half rivet closures because that was all I could find but now it looks like they have lighter-weight sew-on options.
 100 50 10 Sets Thin Magnetic Purse Snaps Closures 14mm 9/16 ...

Until the next issue - Being dressed by caretakers and making accommodations for being in a wheelchair!